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One feature that most men of great value in a woman is her ability to listen well and are interested in what I have to say. Listening can be the more subtle, but effective way of showing sincere appreciation for another person.
With proper awareness and practice, we can all become better listeners, show more appreciation, and make deeper connections with others. To help you make progress in this field, here are some guidelines to follow:
 • Give the gift of listening sincerely.
Sometimes it is comforting for a speaker to share the emotional burden with another person. When someone is there to listen, that human person fills that need to be understood. Certainly there are times when we talk about things that are not so interesting for someone else. However, his willingness to absorb our thoughts, ideas and emotions can be both relaxing and validation. Play is seen as a true sign of affection, friendship, even love.
 • Set your intention of paying full attention.
Some people are easily distracted when another person is speaking. But if you distracted, he does not feel that you value what he has to say. If you want to become an outstanding detector, the first order of business is to be determined to develop the habit of giving the speaker their full attention. You can accomplish this by (1) looking at the eye as is, (2) keep your body still and not fidgeting, (3) turning the body toward them rather than away, and (4) remain silent until the end of complete thoughts.
 • Provide Positive nonverbal information.
Show you're listening closely, providing feedback, as if that person was the only one left in this land. You can do this by: (1) nod in agreement, (2) approaching the person speaking, (3) smiling with joy or approval, and (4) Maintain eye contact throughout the conversation. As anyone with a hearing impairment can see, the listener is not always an audio communication.
 • Try not to interrupt while she speaks.
When you interrupt someone when they talk, they are often trying completed their sentences to accelerate its history. But most of all is in his own head thinking about what you want to talk about instead of listening. After a while, he was becomes annoyed by his interruption. In order that a speaker feels appreciated, it is important to be more patient and disciplined while listening. If necessary, ask if you can do a brief comment on your subject before leaving to continue.
 • Help the person speaking into his flow.
When I worked as a manager of a public speech for years, one of my main tasks was to get people to talk about subjects that were willing to discuss. I make everything work by causing with "So John tells us what happened the other day." When he got stuck, he had brought, "So what happened later? "By doing this, I was able to help the speaker get in a flow. I just stopped to get back on track or to suggest that details about its history. If you can help other people "in the flow" when they speak, will have a special appreciation for you.
 • Seek first understand others instead of willing yourself to be understood.
Most people want others to understand, but the strangest thing that ever think of trying to understand the other person. However, this habit of spinning around in conversations and understanding the other person first, we learn what is important for them early in the game. This setting will naturally result in the talks to suit the taste of the other person, and allows a better exchange of ideas. By changing the focus More on the other person, we learn more about the time that helps them feel more appreciated. The other person is also perceived as more caring and less selfish individual.
 • Repeat their words back to yourself.
A simple way to prevent yourself from filter what someone else is saying is that you repeat in your mind while speaking. Try it! I think you will find that this simple technique will keep your mind from wandering. It will also help improve concentration and memory of what is said.
 • Do not jump to conclusions!
In conflict resolution, make sure that listening to a person completely. Come see their side of the story, and know exactly what their real intentions were. Thus, you can avoid the common mistake of jumping to conclusions by listening only to the first part. By bringing together all the information in them, you are more likely to identify with the motivation or purpose the behavior of the other person.
 • Ask empowering questions.
By listening more closely, we may ask for the type questions correctly. Good questions either get the speaker to elaborate further or lead to a more productive direction. Useful questions include: "What made you feel very proud of that? "and" What do you like about what happened then? "They can also empower the speakers, guiding them towards issues related to positive emotions instead of negative ones. Instead of asking questions only for your own benefit, they do so with the added purpose of management the speaker to feel better about themselves.
By mastering these simple techniques to practice listening and purpose, a clever woman can distinguish itself. Men who date will think of you as someone who can enjoy spending quality time with while doing the most basic activity — have a one-on-one informal conversation.
IN BRIEF
Dating sucks when people start to avoid because you won a reputation as a terrible public. But dating rocks when people feel understood and appreciated by the simple way that you listen to them.
Steve Nakamoto – “The Voice Of The Other Half” – iVillage.com’s Ask Mr. Answer Man Relationship Expert, 2-Time Writer’s Digest Award-Winning Author
Author of Men Are Like Fish: What Every Woman Needs To Know About Catching A Man – Talk Like A Winner! 21 Simple Rules For Everyday Communication Success – Dating Rocks! The 21 Smartest Moves Women Make For Love – http://www.SteveNakamoto.com
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